Saturday 23 July 2016

Why do we feel lonely?


From the past few months I've been in a situation many a times where I feel so lonely and separated, a feeling that is absolutely hollow and the root cause of which is still mystery.

Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend and I realized that everyone feels lonely. It is something deep inside that is very natural. We all look for someone to be there, who do nothing, just be there.

There is a slight difference between being lonely and being alone. A person sitting in a room full of people may still feel lonely who doesn't have any listener; on the other hand a person sitting alone may not feel lonely due to the self love or be it the faith he has on God or be it the moral support from someone or anything. 


Even after having everything, people feel a little alone
• some in terms of moral support;
• some in terms of a friend;
• some in terms of a partner;
• some in terms of a listener.
What we all seek is a support, a faith from someone that will never slip away.. someone to comfort us.. someone to make us feel secure.. someone with whom we can share our life! 

My friend regarded them as "different versions of God" to overcome loneliness, some people say them soulmates, some say them bff or even some people show their religious beliefs in gem stones; a thing be it living or non living that strengthen their faith. It is that belief only (of which the reason may be anything) which helps us in overcoming this loneliness. And that internal peace enables positivity of our minds which further brings positivity in our lives. One belief does it all. 

Why do you feel lonely? What do you do to overcome this loneliness? What is that moral support for you? Share your thoughts below. :)

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  2. This can be really hard. Especially when you already suffer from a disorder such as depression or bi-polar. It can make you paranoid that no one cares. Even if they say they do. It is hard to believe them.

    It is always a good idea to seek out professional help when feeling like this. I almost lost my marriage due to it. But now that I am on medication and in therapy. Things have picked up.

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    1. You caught it right.. the only feeling that no one cares can actually get you into depression and can make the situation even worse. And it's really good to hear that you overcame that situation. Somethings take time settle down and at the end it only gives you the strength.

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